A short and thoughtful look at why the Church baptises infants, how parents and godparents share in this grace, and how the parish helps children grow into the faith they receive.
Reflecting on My Infant Baptism
At three weeks old, my parents carried me into St Patrick’s Church, Kilbirnie, where Father Michael Griffin baptised me:
“Peter John, I baptise you in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.”
It was my first moment of grace—Christ making living contact with my soul.
Why Baptising Infants Matters
When asked why we baptise children, we begin with Jesus’ words:
“No one can enter the kingdom of God unless he is born of water and the Spirit.” John 3:5
For believing parents, baptism is an act of faith and love. It welcomes a child into the life of Christ and into the Church community. Preparation begins before birth, with the parish ready to support families.
But Shouldn’t Children Decide Later?
Children will make their own decisions in time. Meanwhile, parents care for them in every way—including spiritually. Infants are baptised on the strength of their parents’ faith and the faith of godparents. We belong to the communion of saints, and a Christian name expresses that belonging.
Growing Into the Faith
Children are gradually formed in the faith they have received. Parents share what they themselves have been given, and the parish accompanies them. Every baptised child has the right to be taught God’s plan so they may one day profess the faith freely.
The Mystery of Faith
St Paul writes:
“How deep are his wisdom and knowledge!” Romans 11:33
Baptism is simple in action yet infinite in grace. To baptise a child is to kindle the flame of faith. Parents who co‑create life with God also cooperate with him in bringing their children to the font, asking the Spirit to bestow divine life.
Parents’ Role in the Rite
During the ceremony, parents:
- request baptism
- sign their child with the cross
- profess the faith
- carry the child to the font
- hold the baptismal candle
- receive special blessings
Their role is a true ministry.
What Parents Often Ask
- Why baptism is important
- How the parish is involved
- Preparation and follow‑up
- The role of godparents
- When and where baptisms take place
- What happens in the ceremony
- What to do if a child is already baptised
Ultimately, baptising children is about belonging—to family, to parish, to the Church, and to God himself.